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Monthly life-skill letters for kids ages 10–12

What if checking the mailbox helped your child grow?

Friendships. Confidence. Money. Social media. Growing up comes with big questions. Each month, your 10- to 12-year-old gets a real letter addressed to them, with a relatable story, one life skill, and a small challenge to try. No app. No screen. No lecture.

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Welcome Letter mailed within 5 days. Then one new life-skill letter is mailed each month.

A child receiving a Before You're 13 letter from the mailbox
Real mail they can hold A personalized light brown envelope addressed to your child.
Kid-focused, not parent-sounding Written for ages 10-12, with girl and boy editions available.
No screen. No app. A simple monthly moment away from another device or login.
Made for ages 10–12 Real mail addressed to your child Secure Stripe checkout Cancel anytime
A LOOK AT WHAT REALLY ARRIVES

Not just a letter. Something your child can actually use.

See the story, the reflection, and the little challenges that make each monthly letter worth opening.

A red-haired girl reading her letter, alongside a close-up preview of the Before You're 13 money letter and its monthly mission
LEVEL 3 • LETTER 2 OF 12 • THE TIME BEHIND THE PRICE
★ THE PRICE TAG IS NOT THE WHOLE PRICE ★

Hey __________, it’s Jordan.
The first time I earned $40 from work that took most of an afternoon, I looked at money differently. I had spent hours helping with a job. When I finally had the money, something I wanted cost $35.

Before I earned the money myself, $35 had just sounded like a price. Afterward, it sounded like almost the whole afternoon I had just spent working.

Would I trade that much of my time for it?

The time behind the price

PRICE

Write down what the item actually costs.

Try it together: Choose something your child wants. Use the three steps to think about its cost in time.
LOOK INSIDE AN ACTUAL LETTER

What does your child actually do with each letter?

Take a closer look at a real Level 3 money-letter excerpt. Tap the three steps to see how a price tag becomes a decision your child can practice making.

  • A relatable story written directly to your child
  • One clear life skill instead of information overload
  • A simple monthly mission that turns the idea into action
  • A question that makes family conversation easier to start
  • A series that builds as your child gets closer to 13
FriendshipsConfidence MoneyPhones & Social Media KindnessProblem Solving Life Choices
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A brown Before You're 13 envelope personalized with a child's name and mailing address
Mailed in a personalized light brown envelope through U.S. Mail.
Real mail made just for them

Seeing their own name on the envelope makes the letter feel special.

This is not another printable, email, app notification, or online course. Your child receives a real light brown envelope in the mailbox, addressed directly to them.

Personalized delivery Your child's name and mailing address appear on the envelope.
Welcome Letter first The Welcome Letter is mailed within 5 days of subscribing.
Monthly mailing schedule Letter #1 is mailed by U.S. Mail on the first Monday of every month.
What parents are saying

One letter. One lesson they remember.

“My daughter loves that each letter teaches one thing.”

Parent B. Savel

“My kid has been enjoying the letters.”

M. Williams
Every letter includes

More than something to read. Something to try.

Each monthly envelope is designed to be useful, personal, and easy for a 10-, 11-, or 12-year-old to complete.

A story from Jordan

A relatable moment written for this age, in a voice that feels meant for your child, not like another adult lecture.

One practical life skill

A focused lesson about confidence, friendships, money, kindness, responsibility, or better choices.

One small mission

A real-world action your child can try that month without worksheets or extra supplies.

A proud-moment reflection

A short place to record what they tried and how it went.

Visible progress

Each letter moves your child one step closer to completing their age-level journey.

A recognizable envelope

Closed with a gold seal and marked by level, so your child knows special mail has arrived.

How it works

Their next favorite delivery starts here.

1

Choose a plan

Select monthly or annual and complete checkout. Then enter your child's information and mailing address during enrollment.

2

Welcome Letter ships

Your child's Welcome Letter is mailed within 5 days. It introduces Jordan and explains the series.

3

Letter #1 is mailed

Letter #1 is mailed by U.S. Mail on the first Monday of every month.

4

They read and try it

One story. One skill. One small mission. Then they mark their progress.

BEFORE THE TEEN YEARS

You do not need one big talk. Start with one good conversation.

Before You're 13 gives you a simple way to put important topics in front of your child before the moment gets complicated. They get mail that feels like it belongs to them. You get an easier opening to talk.

Start with the next letter
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One small letter each month. Skills that stay with them.

Both plans include the Welcome Letter, personalized monthly mail, and your choice of girl or boy edition.

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$7.99 / month
  • One letter mailed each month
  • Welcome Letter mailed within 5 days
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Quick answers

What parents need to know.

When will my child's letters be mailed?

The Welcome Letter is mailed within 5 days of subscribing. Letter #1 of the monthly subscription is mailed by U.S. Mail on the first Monday of every month.

What ages is this for?

Before You're 13 is designed for children ages 10-12. Your child's age determines the appropriate starting level.

What topics are covered?

Topics include confidence, friendships, money, kindness, honesty, responsibility, empathy, independence, and making better choices.

Is there a girl and boy edition?

Yes. The skills and structure are the same. The opening stories are written separately so each edition feels more personal. You choose the edition during enrollment.

My child is already 11 or 12. Will they miss letters?

No. Your child starts with the complete level written for their current age. Nobody receives a shortened or incomplete version.

What if my child is not 10 yet?

Before You're 13 begins at age 10. If your child is younger, join the Early Interest List and we will let you know when it is time for them to start.

Can I cancel the monthly subscription?

Yes. There is no contract. You may cancel anytime, and your child keeps every letter already mailed.

Is this the same as Ready for Middle School Letters?

No. Ready for Middle School Letters is an 8-week transition series. Before You're 13 is a separate monthly life-skills subscription for ages 10-12. Families may use either product or both.

Not 10 yet?

Let them look forward to their turn.

Before You're 13 starts at age 10. If your child is younger, join the Early Interest List and we will let you know when they are old enough to begin receiving their own monthly letters.

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The next important conversation could start in your mailbox.

Give your 10- to 12-year-old a story written for them, one useful life skill, and a small challenge to try. Real mail, every month.

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